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The beauty of boredom [Wise Wednesdays]
So it’s that time of the year when society sanctions rest and holidays. How are you doing with taking time to yourself? I’ve noticed some...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Jul 26, 20233 min read
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3 ways to turn a crisis into a gift [Wise Wednesdays]
So in the space of 3 years, we’ve had to face the cost of living crisis, the energy crisis, the Covid crisis, a new war, etc. But has...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Jul 19, 20233 min read
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The joy and messiness of life – 5 questions [Wise Wednesdays]
This week, I’m sharing from my mid-year reflections with prompts you can play with. Life is seasonal and transitions involve messy...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Jul 12, 20234 min read
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Relief vs Peace of Mind [Wise Wednesdays]
When going through a transition in your career or leadership approach, it can be confusing to know which opportunities to take. Change...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Jul 5, 20233 min read
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It’s not about your CV (Résumé)…[Wise Wednesdays]
So you’re thinking of dusting off your CV and looking to new horizons? Or just keeping your options open? I seem to have had a few...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Jun 28, 20232 min read
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Stop Scrolling and Do It [Wise Wednesdays]
Stop Scrolling and Do It [Wise Wednesdays] Are you scrolling more these days? We spend an average of 2 to 3 hours a day scrolling…And...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Jun 14, 20233 min read
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The antidote to self-doubt [Wise Wednesdays]
When you’re sitting in a circle surrounded by truth, vulnerability and courage, amazing things happen. But what about when you’re alone....
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Jun 7, 20232 min read
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Why Imposter Phenomenon reduces your influence (and how to stop that) [Wise Wednesdays]
My CV was a meter long. I had more letters in my name than behind my name as my coach pointed out. But I still felt inadequate most of...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
May 31, 20233 min read
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The Only Lesson That Matters + Happy 7th Anniversary [Wise Wednesdays]
I had just completed my Tony Robbins coaching certificate and felt ready to start taking on clients. And it worked. The plan was to do...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
May 24, 20232 min read


Transform the world with your Presence @ The London Leaders Circle
It’s 40 years since my first school report stated that I was ‘assertive’. ‘Assertive’ 4-year-old me. In my career, people have described...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
May 17, 20233 min read
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How to break free of anxiety [Wise Wednesdays]
It’s an immense joy when clients start to notice people saying to them: “You seem calmer and more confident recently. What happened?” As...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
May 10, 20232 min read
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How to give a real compliment: appreciation vs evaluation [Wise Wednesdays]
Most people struggle to give meaningful compliments to others let alone themselves. It can feel uncomfortable and awkward. I was speaking...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
May 3, 20232 min read
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Turn the unknown into your ally [Wise Wednesdays]
While doing some research on liberational coaching, I heard a quote: “The opposite of slavery is not freedom. The opposite of slavery is...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 26, 20232 min read
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My Weekend at a Buddhist Monastery [Wise Wednesdays]
Have you ever thought of running away to an ashram or monastery? As a transformational coach, I place importance on self-reflection and...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 26, 20232 min read
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Lean Back and nurture your health [Wise Wednesdays]
“Lean in”, they said. And women all over the world worked even harder. It helped to some extent. But if you’re overstimulated,...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 26, 20232 min read
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Work as a traumatic environment [Wise Wednesdays]
One of the insights that my clients find most liberating is that work can be a traumatic environment. You may have heard of ‘Moral...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20231 min read
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Embrace Who You Are and Do it Your Way [Wise Wednesdays]
Is it OK to be different? If you’ve been reading WW for a while you’ll guess that my short answer is… Yes! (If you’re new – a warm...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20233 min read
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You’re more powerful than you think [Wise Wednesdays]
My coach used to repeat this to me regularly. Eventually, I worked out my own version of it: you are more powerful than your THOUGHTS. Of...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20232 min read
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What does the ideal work culture look like? Biology, trust and choice [Wise Wednesdays]
It’s 4 years since I wrote a Wise Wednesdays about how “people don’t leave jobs but leave toxic work cultures”. It was widely shared and...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20234 min read
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Who are you comparing yourself to? [Wise Wednesdays]
Come on, we all do it. You’re having a bad day and you start looking over there, at that person and how they’re doing much better than...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20233 min read
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